You may agree with John Gray that, “men are from Mars, women are from Venus.” However, style is undeniably universal and one of the biggest fashion trends for Millennials and Generation Zs is “gender fluidity” – the blurring of gender identities. A gender-fluid individual can identify themselves with men, women, and a combination of both — or nothing at all. A gender-fluid style is an expression of ourselves by how we dress that shifts between masculine and feminine.
Marlene Dietrich was known for having a distinctively androgynous style. She started dressing in menswear as early as 1920s and was often seen in tailored men’s suits, loose-fitting white shirts/black pants, and uniforms. She was openly bisexual and enjoyed the thriving gay scene in Berlin. One of her most famous lovers was Greta Garbo, who was equally mysterious and ambisexual, also became a silver-screen sensation — despite the controversy surrounding bisexuality. And ironically, both actresses fully exploited their sexuality against men — on and off screen, and unlike many Hollywood counterparts, lived well into their “zoomer” years (91 and 85).
Since then, the gender fluidity trend became officially on the rise. Here are some exemplary photographs.
However, today I am going to show you how to pick up the trend in a slightly less “theatrical” way and to wear some of our favorite pieces with just the right amount of feminine flair.
Crisply Tailored Blazer
A well-tailored blazer can make a cocktail dress more sophisticated, a pair of old jeans more dressy, and those extra few pounds disappear. It is pure magic! Its versatility also allows you to pair it with stilettos, slip-ons, boots as well as sneakers.
Strong-shouldered Military Coat
Another highly adaptable piece for your wardrobe — the military coat, is a perfect transitional piece for the cooler temps and gray days . They offer warmth as well as a little extra strength and security that we sometimes crave.
“Rebel without a Cause” Bomber
A bomber jacket is an essential for spring and fall seasons, creating the “cool girl” image without taking away the soft look of the woman. Pair it with a dress or skirt for a sleek vibe or a crop top and your favorite pair of destroyed denim for a casual-chic look.
It is looser-fitting than a woman’s dress shirt but just as sexy. You look like you just threw on your lover’s shirt the morning after yet still appear effortlessly chic. Casually tuck it into your jeans or skirts and pair it with some flirty heels and you’re good to go!
The suspenders are making a comeback. They are quirky and funky additions to your feminine outfits. On the other hand, wear it with loose-fitting pants and tailored jackets and it will scream Parisian chic.
The bow tie, an attribute of a formal dress code and true gentleman’s symbol, has been part of the modern woman’s wardrobe since the beginning of the 20th century. No matter it is a flowy YSL silk bow tie or a neat ribbon bow tie, it adds a flirtatious vibe to your ensemble. And for the bold and brave, channel your inner Marlene by wearing a tux with a classic structured bow tie.
Loafers go with everything, from jeans and white tees, to dress shirts and flowing skirts. They are incredibly comfortable, perfect for office as well as casual outings. They make your easy denim-and-button-down look more posh and your formal attire more down-to-earth.
I owned a pair of combat boots in college and they were my go-to boots for parties because they looked good with almost everything and I never had to worry about getting stepped on by other drunk kids. They are perfect for winter wear as well as summer music festivals to compliment your boho chic ensembles.
I never wear watches even though I seem to alway get them as gifts. However, if I have to pick a watch to wear, it will be a big men’s watch that covers almost the entire surface of my wrist. There is something incredibly sensual about a woman wearing men’s accessories to show her daring and independent nature.